The marriage ends.
The messages don't.
Every conversation still carries the weight of everything that came before it.
Most co-parenting apps just give those patterns a new home. Clearly changes them. Every message passes through Clearly before it's delivered — the emotion, the history, the charge stripped out — leaving only what actually needs a response.
So you can focus on the one thing you still agree on: your kids.
What nobody tells you
Separation doesn't reduce communication.
It increases it.
You think once you're living apart, the hard conversations will stop. But pickup times, medical decisions, school forms, expenses, holidays, schedule changes — you're going to talk to this person more than you expect, about more than you expect, for longer than you expect.
Every text about Tuesday pickup carries the weight of everything that came before it. That's not unique to you. That's what happens when two people with history try to make decisions together through a screen.
Most parents don't realize
You probably agree on
more than you think.
You both love your kids. You both want this to be as easy on them as possible. Most co-parents are closer to agreement than they realize — but the way they're communicating makes it impossible to act on that.
A question about soccer becomes a fight about something else. A simple expense turns into a referendum on fairness. The shared ground is there — the conversation keeps burying it.
Clearly was built to uncover it.
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From message to resolution.
A real message. Here's exactly what Clearly does with it.
Remove accusation and blame
"You always," "zero respect," "selfish" — stripped. 47 words of emotion, one actionable fact.
Extract the single issue
One word buried in the message actually matters: late. Clearly finds it and builds from there.
Convert to a forward request
Not what went wrong. What needs to happen next — the only thing co-parenting needs to be.
What makes Clearly different
Other apps bring your patterns with you.
Clearly changes them.
Most co-parenting apps give the same patterns a new platform. The same emotional charge, the same triggers, the same loops — just with a different interface. They digitize the dynamic that didn't work in your marriage and hand it back to you.
Clearly sits between both parents. Every message — yours and theirs — passes through before it's delivered. What comes through is the substance: the question, the decision, what your kids need you to resolve. The emotion, the history, the charge — none of that reaches the other side.
Moving people from messages to communicating. That's the difference.
The foundation
Built on frameworks that
resolve real conflict.
The same principles used in mediation and high-stakes negotiation — separate the person from the problem, focus on interests not positions, create a path to a decision.
Because the conversations you're having with your co-parent are genuinely difficult. They deserve a system designed for that.
Grounded in the Harvard Negotiation Project's Getting to Yes framework
Everything included
And yes — it handles the logistics too.
Best-in-class custody calendar. Shared expenses. A today view that surfaces what needs your attention. Everything both parents need, in one place.
Today
One screen that shows you everything that needs your attention — action items, upcoming exchanges, pending topics. No digging through tabs.
Schedule
Best-in-class custody calendar — weekly patterns, holidays, summer. Swap requests handled in-app. Syncs with Apple and Google Calendar.
Expenses
Log shared costs and Clearly pre-calculates each parent's share based on your split. No spreadsheets. No back-and-forth about who owes what.
Shared info
Medications, emergency contacts, school info, addresses, doctors — everything both parents need access to, always current, in one place.
Not sure where to start?
Build your custody plan. Free. Step through your schedule, holidays, expenses, and exchange logistics at your own pace. Share it with your co-parent, your lawyer — or import it into Clearly to get the app set up in one tap.
Pricing
Less than one difficult conversation costs you.
A single hour of mediation runs $300–500. One avoided conflict pays for the year.
Clearly isn't priced like a utility because it isn't one. It's a system that changes how two people with history communicate about the most important thing in both their lives.
Therapy: $200–300/session · Mediation: $300–500/hour
Clearly: less than two sessions. Used every day.
- AI message processing and tone rewriting
- Shared custody calendar with swap requests
- Shared expense tracking and splits
- Topics that resolve — not threads that spiral
- Full communication record, preserved and timestamped
For the kids.
And for you.
The way you communicate with your co-parent will shape your kids' experience of this more than anything else. Clearly helps you find the common ground, make the decisions, and keep it about the kids.
Free to try · $290/year · iOS