You're not just sharing a schedule.
You're raising a human together.
This guided tool helps you clarify what matters most — your values, your priorities, and your vision for your child's future. Built on decades of research into what helps children thrive when their parents live in two homes.
Have a family code from your co-parent?
Built on proven frameworks
Feinberg Coparenting Framework
The most cited coparenting model in developmental psychology. Identifies four dimensions that predict how well co-parents work together and how children adjust.
Search Institute's Developmental Assets
A 30-year research program across 30+ countries that identified 40 building blocks children need to thrive.
Getting Started
Let's start with some basics
This helps us personalize your alignment plan.
Getting Started
Tell us about your child
This helps us tailor the developmental questions to their age.
Getting Started
What's your general custody arrangement?
This gives context to some of our questions.
Before we begin
This isn't a test. There are no right answers.
This is a structured exercise to help you clarify what matters most to you as a parent — your values, your priorities, and your vision for [child's] future.
It's built on decades of research into what helps children thrive, especially when their parents live in two homes.
Your responses are private. If your co-parent completes their own plan, you'll see where your views align — but your specific answers and comments are never shared directly.
Section 1: Your Vision
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